Palestinians are People: A Missionary’s Observations



Photo: Tarek

As of today, 197 Palestinians have been killed and more than 1,500 have been injured in Israel’s constant bombing of Gaza over the last 10 days. Though Palestinians have fired lots of rockets and mortars at Israel in this same time frame, reportedly only one Israeli has been killed. This outburst of violence is the worst in five years. This is a guest post written by an American friend of mine that is a missionary to the West Bank. I asked her to give advice to all of us for whom this conflict is just a bunch of numbers: 197. 1,500. I hope this reminds us that each of those numbers is a person made in the image of God.

On a cool summer evening, my four teammates and I found ourselves sitting on the curb of a popular walking street in Amman, Jordan.  My husband (who I was only dating then) brought his guitar and began playing some tunes in hopes to draw the interest of Muslim passersby and within minutes, we were in conversation with two young Arab girls, enthralled with the idea that we were from America, THE America.  Of course, as Arabs do, they invited us to their home the following day for dinner.  The girls and their parents were so honored by our visit that they invited cousins, uncles, aunts, and neighbors to meet us.  They overfed us with lamb and rice until we were nearly bursting at the seams, and then, as Arabs do, they brought out the second course, multiple whole baked chickens. Food was shoveled onto our plates as if it were as common as the rocks on roadsides. We ate and laughed and ate and laughed and ate some more.  The girls translated for their solely Arabic-speaking relatives and we gestured as awkwardly as possible to fill in the gaps.  As the night drew to a close nearly five hours later, they begged us to stay, begged us.  It was hospitality like I’d never seen.  It was Arab hospitality, and it put my southern hospitality to shame.

This was my first visit to the Middle East nearly ten years ago.  I can still remember the tension in my body on my first night in the country as I lain awake listening to distant fireworks, probably just a celebratory gesture from a nearby wedding, but I was imagining a war zone in which I’d somehow found myself in the middle.  My assumption was that the entire area was in constant turmoil, bombs going off everywhere, anti-American protests down every street, and bloodthirsty Muslims just waiting to slice my neck with a machete.  So needless to say, the hospitality I found in these two teenage girls and their family, the sweetness of the shop owners, and the normalcy of the city streets caught me off guard.  It was then that God cultivated in my heart a deep love for the Arab world that I’m not sure I’ll ever be able to shake, even if I wanted to. 

For the last five years, my family and I have made our home in East Jerusalem and the West Bank and have given our lives to serving God among Palestinian Muslims.  Every so often, we travel back to the U.S. to fundraise for our work there, driving from church to church, sharing about our Father’s love and desire for Palestinian Muslims to know him.  “Aren’t you afraid?” It’s always the first question asked.  It is the most obvious after all.  And I’ll tell you what I tell them: no.  In general we feel quite safe in our West Bank village.  We have loving neighbors, shop owners who know our names, and friends who have helped us out in a pinch.

We have found that same hospitality amongst Palestinians that we experienced on that Jordanian street nine years ago.  So no, we don’t live in daily fear, but there are times when conflict arises as it did in 2012 and as it is now, when we found ourselves a little more on edge.  There was more tear gas in the streets than usual, more protesting, more yelling, more soldiers shoving guns in the faces of the unarmed as they scream desperately, horrible things that you just can’t unsee. I’ll admit, my first reaction was to be fearful.  But the interesting part is that when I looked around at my local friends and neighbors, they were feeling the same way.  See, they’re just people, people trying to live out their lives as peacefully and as normally as possible.  They too are just trying to care for their children, provide for their families, celebrate weddings, and shop for groceries.  And when you get to know them, the “issues” suddenly become faces and it is more difficult to talk politics.

It is much easier if we oversimplify the conflict, demonizing one side, and therefore glorifying the other. We say things like, “it’s so simple, see” and “if only they would do this.” In fact, if you happen upon a news article, video, or social media post in which the author is offering a simplified version of the Palestinian/Israeli conflict, it’s safe to assume that he/she is selling you a narrative in hopes that you’ll choose the “right” side.  The problem though is when we choose sides, we begin to justify the unimaginable.  We overlook the faults of the side we support and exaggerate the faults of those we oppose.

Choosing sides usurps the humanity in the situation.

It is this dehumanizing spirit that causes Israelis to sit on the beach and cheer as explosions are heard in Gaza.  It’s what causes Palestinians to laugh at videos of Israelis running out of a wedding in fear because of air raid sirens.  When we choose a side, the other ceases to be human on some level.  As followers of Jesus, we can’t afford to choose sides.  We can’t afford to support political and militaristic causes that involve killing the innocent.  We can’t afford to deem an entire race or religion of people as being beyond redemption.  As soon as we’ve done that, we’ve belittled their creator, assuming He is somehow incapable of restoring all. No, we must choose another way, a path of true peace. We must be makers of peace, choosing love and compassion for both the Jew and the Arab.

Do not allow the complexity of this situation to overwhelm and paralyze you though, I beg you. Please continue to educate yourself.  Keep reading. Keep praying.  Continue the discussions. But if at any time you find your heart growing cold toward people of any race or religion, then pause. Recenter yourself on Christ.  Allow the Spirit of God to remind you of how deeply he cares for all of the world’s inhabitants.  You see, as His workers in the Holy Land, we have one job to do there, and it has nothing to do with political agendas or standing with one side or the other.  It has nothing to do with deciding who is right and who is wrong.  We are called above the conflict, to help the hurting, comfort the afflicted, and most importantly, we’re called to speak the good news that brings true, everlasting peace into the hearts of all people everywhere.  So, will you drop the arms of distorted positions, arguments, and narratives, choose the path less traveled, and join us in reconciling the world?

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  1. says

    I think there is another side that is not heard from. It’s the peacemaking Israeli side. The news channels typically spin all Israelis as war supporting or worse, war mongers. The truth is a great number of Israelis also desire a peaceful solution.

    Please don’t take this as a “dislike” or your posted article. It is not. There is just another side also searching for peace.

    • J. Wallace says

      I think you are right to a degree. I think a lot of Israelis do want peace but the leadership (Netanyahu) does not!!. How many Israeli citizens live in refugee camps that are not “fit for a dog.” No running water in the house..LOTS of difficulties..Unable to get day-to-day needs, i.e. food and water that ANY human being should not be deprived of!. Americans would NOT take that without some repercussion!!

      This is NOT rhetoric..I lived there several years..American..Not Arab!!

      • says

        I don’t believe you are only spouting rhetoric. By no means. No do agree with most of your assessment. I just wanted to highlight that between those two entities, as most of the Middle East, each place has a peacemaking group and a warmongering group. I think we need to recognize everyone who searches and works for peace – on all sides of any conflict.

  2. says

    “We are called above the conflict…” — so good! A great reminder to believers to view the conflict with the eyes of Jesus, not merely politically.

    • J. Wallace says

      We are but it is a lot harder when you are left without food, water and the necessities each person has a right to and then constantly be regarded as “the enemy” to people who do not know the situation you are living in!

  3. John Smith says

    “…for whom this conflict is just a bunch of numbers: 197. 1,500.”

    The very fact that you failed to place that number at 198, the inclusion of the Israeli killed, reveals quite a bit.

    I sympathize for the plight of the innocent Palestinians. I do. But they are lead by radical fanatics who care not for the lives of those innocents when they fire those 1,500 rockets in and around their homes and schools. Ignoring the historical context and current political realities surrounding those innocents does not help in bringing and end to the conflict.

  4. J. Wallace says

    I wish you would go and live in one of the occupied territories for a few months and see what they endure on a daily basis. No American would live in that kind of situation without eventually retaliating!! Israel is also killing and injuring many fine Christian men, women and children..Yes I do know some of them!. I think anyone has a “right” to defend themselves. It is the enormous out of proportion that Israel responds with that makes me angry!!

  5. Jeff Friedman says

    Gaza is not occupied by anyone other than hamas. There is not a single Israeli that lives or would be permitted to live in Gaza. Their co-religioists next door in Egypt have done less for the Gazan people than the Israelis. You claim neutrality and couch yourself in high sounding Biblical principals and then completely disregard them yourself The Arab world with trillions of petrodollars has done almost nothing to ease the suffering of the Palestinian people. No other people in the world have been more abused, disused by their own people than the Palestinians. You obviously do not know the history, the whole, correct history of the area from Biblical times until the present day. What army in history has gone to the lengths to avoid death of innocents as the IDF does? If Hamas would acknowledge Israels right to exist there would be negotiations and peace. “If the Arabs would lay down their arms there would be peace. If Israel laid down her arms there would be no Israel.” How many Jews have to die before it is not considered an over reaction to a “few missiles” Ten? A hundred? a thousand? How many before Israel would be legitimate in its response? I am a Messianic Jew. I want all people to know Messiah. Our organization has ministered to Muslims without any prejudice. I am asking you for “equal weights and measures” as the Torah teaches. Fairness, truth, love, mercy and compassion for ALL is Y’shua’s command to us. May HaShem bless you and bring peace to Jerusalem and all the world.

    • says

      Your rhetoric would seem to indicate that you missed the point of the post. The nature of this conflict is such that lots of folks are unable to recognize the errors of one group of people or the humanity of the other. This falls short of recognizing the image of God in the other.

  6. andrea411 says

    When the Christians are gone and the Jews they come for you… these people voted for Hamas, they rejoice in death and refuse freedom for all even themselves… and the worst is yet to come


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